frequent questions

Frequently Asked Questions

  • What services do funeral directors provide?

    A funeral director provides comprehensive support to grieving families after the loss of a loved one. In addition to coordinating cremation, burial, and memorial services, they offer essential bereavement support and comfort to the living. Their role includes arranging, directing, and attending funerals, as well as embalming.


    Key responsibilities of a funeral director include:

    • Arranging for the deceased to be brought from the place of death to the funeral home.
    • Providing professional care for the deceased, such as embalming, dressing, and cosmetology.
    • Meeting with the family to plan the funeral service.
    • Completing necessary paperwork, including certificates and permits.
    • Obtaining copies of the death certificate.
    • Coordinating with cemeteries, crematories, or other final disposition providers.
    • Writing and publishing the obituary.
    • Arranging service details such as clergy, music, flowers, transportation, pallbearers, and special fraternal or military tributes.
    • Overseeing the funeral service and procession.
    • Helping the family with death-related claims and resources, such as Social Security, VA benefits, and grief support.
  • Why are funerals so expensive?

    A traditional funeral includes several elements that contribute to the overall cost. In addition to the required basic services fee, other expenses may include transferring the deceased to the funeral home; embalming and preparation; use of facilities and staff for the viewing and ceremony; transportation, such as a hearse or service vehicle; a memorial print package; a metal casket; a vault or grave liner; and the purchase of a cemetery plot.

  • What is the purpose of a funeral?

    A funeral or memorial service offers a meaningful opportunity to honor the life of a loved one and pay tribute to the impact they had. It creates a space where family and friends can openly express their emotions, reflect on cherished memories, and find comfort in the support of others. Through shared remembrance, it allows us to grieve, connect, and begin the journey toward healing.

  • Can you still have a funeral if you choose cremation?

    Yes. Cremation or burial is simply the disposition of the body. Funeral services honor and remember your loved one, regardless of the choice of disposition.

  • What is the difference between a funeral and memorial service?

    Funerals usually involve the deceased’s body and often lead to burial or cremation. In contrast, memorial services take place without the body and can be scheduled days, weeks, or months after the death.

  • Do I have to have a funeral service?

    No, services are not required by law. However, many families find comfort and closure through a ceremony that honors the life of their loved one.

  • What are my options for final disposition?

    Common options include burial (in-ground or above-ground), cremation, or donation to science. Each choice can be paired with a traditional or personalized service.

  • Can I personalize the funeral?

    Absolutely. You can include specific music, readings, photographs, videos, personal items, and more to reflect your loved one’s life and wishes.

  • Is embalming required?

    Embalming is not required by law in every case. It may be necessary for a public viewing or if the body must be transported across state lines.